2018 – The Year of Me!!!

That’s right, the year of me. I don’t mean I’m going to be utterly selfish in 2018, more that my goals for the year ahead are going to be about creating habits that add value to and/or improve my life. As I reflected on my goals for 2017 the thing that struck me was that the goals I felt most invested in were those that were about a process rather than an outcome, and that got me thinking: how can I set goals that will challenge me but also allow for some kind of progress, regardless of outcome? For example, by setting the goal of a marathon PB, my only options were to achieve it or not (I didn’t) but that didn’t take account of all the miles I ran in training that helped my running to progress. In contrast, by setting the goal of reaching my 100th parkrun, even if I hadn’t made it to 100 I would still have reached a number that advanced on the 60 I began the year with. That requires consistency and therefore is a progression. Since I celebrate a “significant birthday” in 2018 I want to focus on myself and how I can enrich my life, so it’s out with “I want to run X time in a race” and in with aims that involve a year-long process of self-improvement and developing positive habits, aims that will take time and commitment to achieve rather than hanging on a one-off performance. I didn’t set out to come up with 8 for 2018 (to follow 7 for 2017), it just worked out that way – apparently even my unconscious mind likes things to be neat!

1. Run 1000km (621 miles)
Rather than focus on time, this year I want my running to be about cumulative distance. On average, I probably do run around 1000km in a year but have never made this a goal before as I was so conscious of being injury-prone. I probably still am, but I’m also better at listening to my body now and have done a lot of work to help keep me injury-free, so this year I want to make my total distance a goal. 2017 may have been a year of very little racing (I actually only raced 5 times!) but I ran very consistently and my final total of 752 miles was my highest annual mileage ever. Of course I won’t be aiming to meet my goal no matter what – if I get an injury or have an illness then recovery will be my priority, but it’s important to me that my miles mean something beyond “just” another training run. To that end, I have signed up to the 1000km challenge on Virtual Runner UK so assuming I reach my goal, there will be a medal at the end of the year to mark my achievement. Running consistently make me a better runner, and I want every mile in 2018 to count.

2. Commit to a minimum of 5 minutes of yoga on at least 5 days of the week
Last year one of my goals was to commit to more yoga, but I was a little vague about what “more” meant. Not a very SMART goal! But when I did finally get to grips with it thanks to the Tough Girl 100 challenge, I absolutely loved it. My Ashtanga class is a real highlight of my week and throughout the 100 days when I was doing some yoga daily, I felt great. It became my habit to turn to a yoga practice that met my needs that day e.g. to address a tight muscle or aching shoulder, to help me to sleep better or to energise me in the morning. For that challenge my goal was at least 10 minutes per day, but I discovered a number of shorter sequences that I really enjoyed, so when thinking about my goals for 2018 I kept coming back to yoga. I really regretted letting that regular practice fall by the wayside towards the end of the year, so decided that 5 minutes (minimum) of yoga on 5 days of the week would be achievable. To get back into the habit, I signed up to the Yoga with Adriene 30 Days of Yoga to begin the year and am really looking forward to it. Steve has been promising to turn our smallest room int a space where I can roll out my yoga mat so perhaps we’ll finally get that done too…!

3. Read at least 30 books
Back in 2016 I set myself the goal of reading “more” as I was conscious that I just wasn’t finding as much time to read as I had in the past. I’ve ALWAYS been a reader (hence a degree in English!) and it frustrated me that I seemed to be completing so few books. To make that a SMARTer goal I used Goodreads to track my reading and joined their annual reading challenge, setting a target of 15 books on the basis that I probably read about a book a month with some extras during my summer holiday. I actually ended up reading 27 books, so my 2017 target was 30 books, a goal I met by the skin of my teeth! This year I’m keeping the goal this same, but hoping to stay a little more on top of it (although I suspect that the first few days of January will be the only point in the year when 0 books will be declared “on track” haha!). I actually read a fair amount of non-fiction in 2017 so plan to have a balance between fiction and non-fiction on my reading list. I can’t wait to see where reading will take me in 2018…

4. Be in bed by 10pm at least 3 times per week
This one is a development of my 2017 goal to prioritise rest more during the work week. I did make progress on this one but still would fall into the trap of staying up a bit too late sometimes (I’m a natural night owl) so in 2018 I want to do even more to make sure I’m as well rested as possible. This goal is really for term time as it’s much easier to be well rested during school holidays, and by making it a public goal then that will hopefully make me more accountable. I often start thinking about going to bed around 10pm, then spend time getting changed, brushing my teeth, etc and before I know it another half hour has passed. This goal is set in such a way that I should do all this earlier and actually be IN my bed at 10pm, settled with my book. Perhaps I’m just getting boring with age, but the thought of more time in my cosy bed is rather appealing and I know that being better rested will make me feel more alert, keep my immune system more robust and improve my running performance.

5. Watch at least one Ted/Ted X talk per week
I LOVE Ted talks and use them frequently in the classroom. There are so many incredible speakers sharing a range of fascinating information and I’ve worked up a massive list of talks I would like to watch…but never take the time to do so. This year I’m committing to watching at least one per week, either on the Ted Talks website or one of their youtube channels. There is so much out there to learn about and by making this commitment I’m committing myself to broadening my mind and learning more about the experiences of others. What a huge offering from a free platform!

6. Listen to at least 8 podcast episodes per week
When I first started to run I couldn’t set foot out the door without my trusty iPod and some music to distract me. These days I’m happy to run with just my own thoughts for company, but I much prefer listening to podcasts and use them to learn a lot, mainly about running or incredible adventures and challenges that inspire me. I have a huge number of podcasts that I enjoy (and a list of others I’d like to try!) but for various reasons have fallen a little behind in listening to them. So in 2018 my aim is to listen to at least 8 per week, which is basically one per day (usually on my drive home) and a couple during my Sunday long run. My only “rule” is that it must be over 10 minutes to count. I do listen to one or two shorter, daily updates and will continue to do so, but 8 short podcasts (maybe 80 minutes in total) is not quite the same as, say, 8 hours of quality content when it comes to broadening my horizons. If you fancy joining me then I wrote about some of my favourites here and here.

7. Respond to at least one WordPress prompt per month
I wanted to have a blog-related goal as well to help me develop my writing a little bit further, but I know that time-wise I’m quite limited in being able to produce any more content than I am at the moment. However I often see the WordPress daily prompts/challenges and think it would be a good idea to produce a response to them – I’ve even wondered about a mini-goal of completing all of them for a month in the summer, but never actually done it! – and so I thought it might be fun to try one (or maybe more) each month. I’m being fairly flexible with my “rules” around this one so the prompt doesn’t have to be from the month in question, it might be an older prompt or even come from one of the ebooks of daily prompts. I might choose a prompt requiring a written response or I might choose a photographic prompt. Who knows where this might take me…

8. Be more mindful in my phone/social media use
My final goal is interesting as it’s a little harder to quantify, but I am concerned in general about the amount of mindlessly scrolling through social media and/or staring at smartphone screens in the world today. As a teacher I find that my tolerance for phones is getting pretty low and I am catching myself getting more and more annoyed when I look around me and just see people staring at screens rather than interacting. People don’t look around and notice the world anymore and even when groups are together they are often sitting in silence all tapping away on different screens, any conversation being to ask if someone has seen a particular post. Is that what the future is going to be? When I was in France in October I barely looked at my phone all week other than to take photos and communicate with Steve, and I found it rather liberating. Since then, I have tried to cut back on the amount of time I spend using my phone as it’s so easy to get sucked into infinite timelines, especially when little of what I see enhances my life in any great way. I enjoy being part of some specific groups, and interacting with people I rarely see, but it’s a problem when I can’t sit and watch a TV programme without checking my phone. And so I want to be a bit more present in my own life and mindful in my phone use. If I’m on social media then it should be for a purpose (e.g. interacting in a running group or sharing my blog posts), not mindlessly scrolling through drivel when I could be reading blog posts from writers I’m interested in or getting lost in a good book. I often feel like my time is squeezed, so why waste it looking at “copy and paste” status updates, vague posts fishing for “u ok hun?” responses and people falling for hoaxes like to-good-to-be-true competitions or that privacy statement that keeps resurfacing? Yes, I will keep posting photos from my runs, yes I will share content that I find interesting (or might win me a good prize!) and yes I will “like” things I genuinely like. What I won’t do is let these things suck away my precious time and prevent me taking part in more fulfilling activities. It will be interesting to see how that goes.

So there you have it, my goals for the year which will (hopefully) develop positive habits and add value to my life. I will post the usual updates throughout the year to keep myself accountable and share how I’m getting on, but in the meantime, let’s go…!

What are your goals for 2018?
What one thing would you like to do to either create a positive habit or add value to your life this year?


16 thoughts on “2018 – The Year of Me!!!

  1. I like your goals.

    That is a good idea of the prompt posts. I would like to be more creative in my writing and in life. I am going to explore more ideas s s options for me this year.

    I want to set a running goal as well. Just have to figure out what I want.

    Good luck! I look forward to following how things go.

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  2. Great goals! The last half of last year I tried to really focus on making the process the goal and it completely changed my perspective. I think it made me a lot more present as well because i started to focus on the day by day victories rather than a much further away finish line.
    Anyway, nice list, good luck with everything! And Happy New Year!

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  3. Great goals there- I totally agree with you about social media. My running club mainly organises runs and events through facebook, and I do like seeing things like holiday photos, but like you say there is also a lot of mindless stuff on there.
    I really agree with your thoughts of process related goals too- I don’t really set resolutions but I like to have things to work towards (last year was 100 parkruns and 20 UK events)- I’m not sure what to head for next but I just want to enjoy running so I’ll sign up for a few races and not worry about finishing times.

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    • I’ve been thinking about process over outcome for a while now. I always set goals rather than resolutions but this year wanted the focus to be a little different.
      Looking forward to seeing what you decide to focus on next.


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